Lessons on Grease

On a lazy Saturday I found myself flipping through channels with my daughters.  We stumbled across the movie Grease when I declared. "Oh, this is one of my faves."  We stopped there and started to watch Grease when I quickly found myself having to explain a lot!  Even with editing of the movie I had forgotten how much of the material and content was so sexual. (Thank you Holy Spirit).  We shut it off and I created and shared with my daughters what we can learn from Grease the movie.

Life Lessons on Grease

5. Any kind of loving shouldn't happen fast...especially Summer Loving. 

  Love, and true love take time. 

4.  Make a list of qualities that make a good friend. 

Do you want your friends to drink, swear, smoke or rat their hair?

3.  Be aware of boys who can sing a song about a car and turn it into sex.

Really, that is NOT what sex is about.

2.  Never. Never change your looks or clothing to impress people.

Be true to the person God intended you to be.

1.  In response to Frenchie's comment, "The only man a girl can really trust is her daddy."

You may have a wonderful earthly father but he is still human and is not perfect. 

Always trust your Heavenly Daddy!

A lazy Saturday turned into a teachable Saturday.

On a side note.  It is Spring Break in our part of the world.  Yes! I will be leaving the blogging world for a brief time to be with my family and enjoy the Florida sun!  Happy Spring Break to you and yours!

Good Question

             "For a man who had all the answers, Jesus asked a lot of questions."
                                                                                                             Cathy Davison

I sometimes feel like I don't ask good questions when I am getting to know someone.  My questions usually have a yes or no response and that makes it hard to really generate a conversation with someone new.  In her book, Becoming a Woman of Influence, Carol Kent has an entire chapter devoted to asking good questions.  She cites the ways Jesus used questions to expose lies and reveal truth, exposed people's deepest longings, questions that help faith grow, and using questions in teachable moments.  I am practicing the 'art of asking questions' with the 7th grade girls I work with at youth group.  It takes practice, as it is easy to slip into a yes or no question mode, but when I intentionally slow down I am amazed at the information they share when I ask the right question.  I am learning about their dreams, hopes, fears, family life, and how they see their faith.

Here are some example question from the book. 

What is your best memory of your mother? Your father?
How do you celebrate Christmas?
What is one thing you would like to do before you die?
What keeps you from being as close to the Lord as you'd like to be?
What is one thing you would like to change in your spiritual life?
In what area of your life do you need advice?
What women (historical or contemporary) would you most like to emulate?
How can I pray for you?

These are just a few! No doubt, some great questions!

Here is a thought for you...take a few of these and ask a friend or someone you are trying to get to know better.  (Make sure you have an answer of your own to the questions).  See where the conversation goes. Can you ask the right question that will help someone open up? Will you gain valuable insight in that person's life? I sure hope you do!

After all, on our journey as Christ followers, we are called to share and called to influence those around us. (Think of 2 Corinthians 2:15..."For we are to God the aroma of Christ..")  In taking time to ask and think of the right questions we can learn about others with the hope of sharing how Christ's love has transformed our lives.  We can be intentional about our questions and intentionally influence lives of others.

What do you think? Are you up for the good question challenge?

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